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September 12, 2009

In between 2 roads

Hey guys, back on track on Advice of the Week again.
Was suppose to go for T Music Festival but was retricted by parents due to exams this coming week. NVM, I will have chance to go again (hope).

Well, this week actually I'm gonna share something that I think many of us, sometimes do become a middle person or falls between 2 decisions.
Basically, I do have such problems sometimes.

We, as teenagers or young adults, often get in middle of 2 different decisions.
Of course, I'm not taking about family matters here. Basically I have least family matters and I will never discuss here in public though.
Between friends, we often get such problems.
This do not like that, and that do not like this.
Note that, sometimes we do anti someone... (shh..)

But this is not about Anti someone.
But for those that really in the group of friends.
Those that you really often get in touch.
We become the ear for these friends, telling their problems and their dislikes to you.
It is something good and something that a friend should actually do.
I mean, of course, friends will speak out their dislikes and problems to you.
Am i right? I'm taking the norm of the society. Not talking about special cases.

Sometimes when 1 of your friends tells you about another dislike.
You try to advice the other about it, if you agree with it.
But sometimes, you just do not agree with it but you can't do anything
and You try advice the other about it, but you just do not feel like it.
You get frustrated, am i right?

Many people actually get this kind of problem, every single day.
But, this is a journey in our life and lessons to us.
We just cannot do anything.
Perhaps, slowly you can actually understand and make it clear for everyone.

To me, I sometimes really wanna tell those friends to,
talk to the person involved, face to face.
Seriously, if you really want the person to change, you have to face him/her personally.
Approaching someone personally always the best solution!

Any question for advice of the week? Post a comment. :)

P/S: Exam this coming week! Good luck to all Jan Intake Students!

Signing off
Chris

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